Monday, 10 March 2008

Internet profiles and dating




I have met a few people off the internet and got to know what is behind a few profiles. The people who participate in cyberworld have truely made me learn to smile again, wonderful wicked senses of humour - wow I almost feel "normal" laughs.
It seems that most of the people I have met are looking for a "partner" but something holds them back from admitting the fact.
I have also realised that alot of people try to make out as if they are more adventurous than they are. (What happens if you meet some one and like them and they truely want to do the things you said you wanted to and you actually don't) It seems the more a person is interested in sexually the more they are actually inexperienced. A strange phemomenon about looking as good as the others! You are your own worst critic! Weight is a strange thing - big can be beautiful though some people jest about it! Or deny that they are on the heavier side.
Alot of people who are actually looking for "love" would actually sell themselves short and accept open relationships.
Others meet and write themselves off half way through the meeting then later apologise for having been a disappointment. I can't help being the heavy kind - literally and figuritively - just who I am!
Some are even keen to just do it - without even talking - as if it is a notch they need to make in their bow or perhaps they feel they would disappoint if it didn't happen.
The pressure is on to impress yet alot of people forget the true essence of themselves is so much more valuable than trying to prove you are something you are not. Remember if you really want to meet someone that the truth about such basic things as height, age and don't laugh here - your gender (or change thereof!) - count! Don't make your first impression false!
Believe in yourself, hold your beliefs and values close to your heart. It is only through believing in yourself that others will be able to see your true value.



1 comment:

twisted said...

is there not a area where truth is of little importance and what counts is the stamina with availability? Sex for the sake of sex, mutual need realized with no other exchange met nor wanted.
This is were i see most of the energy being wasted when self satisfaction would at least be caring for self in a tender way.
I have been known to be wrong ..