There is a time for everything

There is a time for everything and I have come across people here who have met the special one but they were still married and could not disentangle themselves for each other.

I have spoken to many people who say their marriage is dead, they are on here looking for some action, being stuck in a Vanilla relationship can feel like a living death – a dull, grey, flat, boring blankness. Something is seriously missing: verve, vitality, life, power, passion, intensity, spontaneity, they feel it is alright to add a bit of spice by having discrete relationships.

When a person is right for you, they feel right for you. They add vibrancy and joy to your life, as you do to theirs; they do not make you feel flat, bored, annoyed with yourself for failing to feel what you are supposed to feel, or any other such depressing things. They do not seem dull, numb, flat, lifeless. When a person is right for you, you do not have a nagging feeling that something is missing – and neither do they. The person may well be full of faults; there may be many problems; but they feel right nevertheless.

My question is even if it feels right together would you be able to build a relationship with a person you met while they were married?
Would it not be in the back of your mind that they messed around on their partner when they met you could this pattern not be repeated?
I don’t include people who are seperated but not divorced yet here, just people who want to step out of a relationship where their partner has no idea they are looking.