Stuck in a bad relationship
The main reason for people joining dating sites is to find some fun, to add a little spice to their lives.
Many come unprepared to play with the fire they may get caught in.
And so a meeting is arranged and since you are both looking for a little excitement often you do meet some one and you strike a match – wow they are everything you have ever wanted – good in bed always full of compliments – it is the dating game afterall!
You begin to think of each other constantly and tune into each other’s thoughts.
Sometimes this can become an obsessive pattern.
You call, email, make plans, laugh, share your lives, have great sex!
You drop all that is your life now in preference for the new person and then
the bubble bursts for any number of reasons, signifying that this was not meant to last.
The fantasy stops.
Reality Check.
Old issues of self doubt and inadequacy surface.
After a bad relationship ends you must find out who you have become and what you have learned.
You need to learn to accept yourself for what and who you have become only then will it be possible to move on.
There is no point jumping out of a frying pan
only to land in the fire... look before you leap.
To love another you need to love yourself – sex might be great but it is not everything.
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