Dating sites

I recently came across a review on Adult FriendFinder claiming it to be a farce.
Below is an extract the only part which I read and agreed with......
Encompassing everything from vanilla to fetish - This is the place for married people to meet each other for "friendships with benefits," where recently divorced mid-lifers search for the wildness they feel with great resentment that they missed, and where young people wanting to experiment find willing instructors.

Yesterday I did a post that was declined on the reality of this site, we all come here looking for something.
I will be the first to admit that I came here looking for sex – my first profile stated my goal was to find me a man or I would have to resort to going back to gym! (I swim now…..)

I personally don’t like all the excessive marketing that is going on but…
Let me see now….. is this not the home of swingers?
Is it not quite clearly stated that the gel here is sex?

Yes we do get those uninformed ignorant sods that come here thinking this is a cheap pick up joint but in reality I have made friendships on here – male and female – learnt a little more how the male brain works – considering most are guided by their lower brain giggles where - else could you do that than on a sex site.

Let’s face it as a female we have the pick of the bunch – lucky us – if we have to tolerate some deluded creatures along the I am happy to ignore them – the good guys far out way the bad. I have built up friendships on here that are purely platonic but I know if I ever needed a hand all I would need to do is ask. Yes and that is from the married men too. Even married people get lonely and need some one to talk to. True this is often a place people come to towards the end of their marriages but the crack was there already – they can not say they didn’t come here with open eyes.

So to those people who are here …
and complain about married people …..
please tell me where else we could blog with such open candor?
{when it isn’t being vetted by the big boys}

Judge not lest you yourself be judged.